August 22, 2025 at 1:36 PM
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Oskar Bear Good morning friends I love you so much and I am so grateful for you, I’m sorry we haven’t posted for like a week… I’m doing great! Mom is not feeling well emotionally. Kieran’s mother and step father have made it very clear they don’t like me and Mom and just invited Kieran to visit which led to an emotional convo with him and Mom and now Mom is questioning their relationship because she doesn’t want to be hated by her future mother in law and have these situations. I love you friends❤️🐾
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I am so happy that things are better for you today! We love you! Don't worry about his mom! Your friends are here to support you! ❤️
Oh that's sounds frustrating. I can see why that can be hurtful. Family dynamics can be hard. I hope your mom and Kieran can find a resolution. No matter what your momma loves you and we do too! Much love to you and your momma 🥰♥️
Mom is also feeling better because of all the amazing support of you wonderful doggos! @skyethehusky @stella @bunnychaser
@stella @skyethehusky oh yes we think she might be one of those Moms! We also feel like it might be partly because Mom didn’t finish college and Kieran’s Mom went to an ivy league school and got a degree in math. And also because a lot of harsh judgements that are untrue like that Mom is manipulating Kieran to talk to her less which is not true! And thank you yes Mom is feeling better now because the convo with Kieran went well and then she and I cuddled and took a nap. Yes Kieran does love me and Mom and hopefully we can work everything out and not let him Mom interfere with anything and hopefully she gets over her issues with me and Mom. But it is hard and Mom is still sad. I love you my precious friends!❤️😊🐾
Sorry you're going through all that. Dad knew right from the start..he had to love me too. I think Sparky and Stella are right. Its between you and Kieran. Hopefully once she know you better she will change her mind. Hugs.
It sounds like his mom is one of those “no one is good enough for my son” type of moms. I wouldn’t let her get to you. I know it must be difficult though. Your and Kieran’s relationship is between you two, and she has no right to try to cause problems for you.
@stella thank you Stella! His Mom just made a snap decision and is sticking to it… we went to Thanksgiving to meet her and she’d said that she wasn’t sure if her dogs would get along with me but didn’t say I couldn’t come well apparently she was really offended and put her dogs in the backyard and wouldn’t even let them try to meet me and she also felt like Mom purposely fell down the stairs which she did not, she tripped! And that was stressful and his Mom was very inconsiderate. I love you Stella and Sparky! Have a great day! Mom and Kieran are having a good convo now. And the idea of a job in France is just something his friend Parker suggested but Mom has already convinced him that’s a bad idea!!😊
@spotter thank you Spotter! I love you! And I’m glad you and your Mom have each other and that is my Mom’s rule too about if people don’t like me but it’s complicated because Kieran loves me and I love Kieran so does Mom, it’s Kieran’s Mom who doesn’t like me which makes it hard and complicated.❤️❤️❤️
I’m sorry, Oskar . Someone definitely needs to stand up for you. My mom‘s rule is you don’t like spotter. You don’t need to be here. I guess that’s why it’s just me and Mom.😊💕 love you, Oskar . You can come stay with me anytime.
I am really sorry that you have to go through this. I can’t understand why they wouldn’t like you or your mom! Your mom is a good and kind person. These kinds of situations can be very difficult. 😥
They live in Tennessee and Kieran’s Grandparents live in Florida so does his Dad and his Mom is going to visit her Mom is October and invited Kieran but was very specific to NOT invite me and Mom and it just lead to a big issue and convo and Mom doesn’t know if it’s worth dating Kieran if his mother hates us and Kieran argues about it instead of trying to fix things or defend Mom about it.